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Listen to me on the radio KCLD morning playhouse in Saint Cloud MN on Tuesday!

Tomorrow at 6:05 am- 7:05 eastern time.

I join the Kcld morning playhouse with Kat & JJ for “Scotty Says…” with “Relationship Realist” Scotty Gunther
We are going to talk about dating!

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Hello, Scotty
I was introduced to this woman through a mutual friend and we got along so well that night and I ended up staying up to 5 am talking to her. The next day I found out that she was moving to Florida (I live in Michigan) We exchanged numbers and spoke and texted every day. We quickly fell for each other and decided to start a relationship. It was love from the start. However two days ago she texted me saying she couldn’t do it any more because it’s too painful because of the distance. She said it’s for the best! I’m so heartbroken, and need to know why?

Scotty Says…

The fact that you started your relationship over the phone after one date tells me that you are into “romantic notions of love” so I hate to do this, but I feel like you need to get your head out of the clouds for a second. Many women are never completely single or alone (meaning, there is someone always in the picture, ex-boyfriends, new guys asking her out, even if its “just a friend ” trying to become more than a friend. Women are NEVER ever completely single. So because of this fact I can confidently come to the conclusion that she has SOMEONE ELSE!

If she truly loved YOU and didn’t just have the urge to be with someone, the long distance wouldn’t be a problem. But women can’t be alone or single for more than five minutes, so she needs to find someone with in her city limits to take her to a movie and tell her that she is pretty. ( I’ll love you forever as long as you are within driving distance. ) You need to be happy that you found out early on that her love is limited to a 50 mile radius! And that’s what Scotty Says…

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Listen to me on the KCLD morning playhouse in Saint Cloud MN.

I join Kat and JJ for Scotty Says…relationship comedy & advice every Friday morning on KCLD!

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Welcome new listeners of WBNQ in Bloomington IL and KCLD in Saint Cloud MN!!

Scotty Says is on the Radio!

Scotty Says… is a quick paced relationship comedy & advice “feature” that targets women! Scotty Gunther is hilarious but insightful, and is the logical voice of reason in the dizzying insane world of love and relationships.

Listen to Scotty Says..with “Relationship Realist” Scotty Gunther on the radio, every week on great radio shows like The KCLD morning playhouse with Kat and JJ in Saint Cloud MN, and Afternoons with Mason on WBNQ Bloomington IL

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Scotty,

I have been with my boyfriend for 8 months, and I love him with all my heart but I still love the attention I get off other males, like when I go out to bars, guys flirt with me and I get a kick out of it! It’s great, It makes me feel beautiful! I haven’t cheated on him before, and I never will. I just feel so bad because he asks me how was my night and I kinda lie and say “it was good, and all girls.” It’s the same when ex’s tell me they miss me, I’m like “oh do you” and I lead them on. Like I said before my boyfriend means the world to me and I would NEVER cheat on him… but I feel bad.:(

Is it wrong to do this behind his back!?

Scotty Says… and the winner of the “I won’t accept any accountability award” goes to…… YOU!!!!

Its interesting how you said you “kinda lied”!?!?! There is no such thing. YOU LIED! You did this because it’s wrong! That’s why you feel bad!

You keep saying that you wouldn’t cheat on your boyfriend but you already did. There might not have been physical touching, but the fact that you are doing things that you know would upset your boyfriend and then hiding it IS cheating.

Cheating is more than just touching or sex. If you act interested, lead someone on, or let someone think you are available and there could be a chance for intimacy, this is also cheating. This is called emotional cheating and it normally leads to physical cheating. Emotional cheating is just as unfaithful as physical cheating. You need to be up front if you are involved in a relationship. If you don’t want anyone to know you are involved with someone, maybe you shouldn’t be.

And that’s what Scotty Says…

Send me your relationship problems Scotty@scottysays.com

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Hello Scotty,

I was going out with this guy from work for a few months. I realized that he just wasn’t right for me. So I broke it off. A few weeks ago, he stated dating another girl from the office. It doesn’t bother me at all, but I am beginning to think that maybe I made a mistake breaking up with him. I never noticed how good looking he is. All I can do is think about us! Should I tell him that I want him back?

Kelly

Scotty Says…

It doesn’t bother you at all huh? Ha-ha! So the shoes didn’t fit, but as soon as another girl is interested in them, you want them back? “They are soooo cute AND THEY ARE MINE!” My shoes!!! He didn’t fit you in the first place and you returned him to the store. Let’s not forget the fact that he didn’t fit you.

Let’s use another analogy! You are NOT 6 years old in the sand box and you can’t have all the toys! You must share them.

You didn’t like him but now someone else does, you want him back. Stop being a selfish baby! Let him be….and thats what Scotty Says

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Dear Scotty,

Last week, I met this hot guy at a bar. Well, after a him buying me drinks all night, I went home with him and I slept with him. I have seen him twice since then and both times we slept together. I think I am just a booty call and am being used by him. This has happened with ever guy I have met, and I am sick of this! How do I stop from being used?

Jenny

Scotty Says…
Stop sleeping with every guy you meet!!!!!!

PS. Stop sleeping with every guy you meet!

and that’s what Scotty Says….

Got a relationship problem? email Scotty@scottysays.com

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