So I got an interesting email from John.

I want to give you chance to do what I do…..I want YOUR advice before I give mine. Read this email and then comment with your best relationship advice.

here is is

My girlfriend always says things are my fault and i am immature etc. In the past she had said I’m not sure if i want to be with you then. she says stuff like your not like you were when i met you your getting bitchy etc. when in my opinion its her that’s gone nuts i wasnt being told what to do and stuff when we first got together she really confusing me she says she loves me and says I’m the greatest sweetest person she ever knew and yet she treats me like I’m less then her and all that matters is her I’m not sure its a ton of mixed signals any advise?

~John

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It’s monday…
yeah thats all,

No wait! My dad and I killed bees today!
whats this got to do with relationships? NOTHING!

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I have realized something in the last month or two. Now days, when it comes to relationships, everybody is a coward. Most people don’t have enough guts to be honest or take real chances in relationships. I have always hated dating because it seems insincere. (Why do I have to buy you food to “get to know you”,) but lately I am starting to think the problems with relationships today, is the lack of commitment, even in the beginning of the relationship.

A few years back, I wrote in my book, that I thought hanging out with someone is a better way to “get to know them” I see now that people use terms like “hanging out” or “just talking” as a way to avoid getting hurt. (let’s not forget “talking talking,” we will talk about that in a bit.) We are just talking or hanging out is NOT attached to any kind of real commitment and that means if it doesn’t work out, or someone better comes along, that’s OK because we were just “hanging out!”

Let me translate these three overused terms.
1) hanging out = We are messing around without any kind of commitment
2) Just talking = making plans to hang out.
3) talking talking = see number one

I have always said “take your time, before you give your heart to someone” but I left a very important part off this. “take your time before you give your girl parts to someone!”

and if you want a relationship have enough guts to commit even if it’s just a commitment to get to know someone on honest terms without keeping your options open. (That is a rare find)

What I need to write about is, how NOT to always feel like you need someone. Because this is where most people go wrong.

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