Scotty’s quote for today!
July 31st 2007
Scotty Says… “My friend studied Art in college, but Art transferred to different school so my friend dropped out.”
All new Female email Monday!
July 30th 2007
It’s Monday on Scottysaysradio.com
Every monday, I read real emails from “real female listeners” sent to scotty@scottysaysradio.com
I pick a weekly email and after I read it, I will give advice! Plus you can send your comments to the emails and I might read them on the radio!
Here is today’s new Female Email
Want relationship advice? email Scotty@scottysaysradio.com
This weekend on Scottysaysradio.com
July 28th 2007
I am excited because I am putting together a new book and it’s going great! (Which is a real surprise!)
If you listen to the radio show you know I am “all over the place” So putting a book together is NOT easy for me. (FOCUS SCOTTY!)
So I will be working on the book this weekend, and you should listen to the best of Scotty all weekend on Scottysaysradio.com
I also have tons of new shows coming up! (both LIVE on stage and on the radio
Got an idea for a radio show topic?
Email Scotty@scottysaysradio.com
Scotty’s quote for today!
July 27th 2007
Scotty Says… “ Some say dating is like buying a car, you have to test drive someone first.
My only concern is the person who test drove the car before me might have left something under the seat.”
Today on WBNQ with mason in Bloomington IL
July 26th 2007
Today I was on the radio with mason in WBNQ i n Bloomington IL.
I got an email from a girl who wrote that she liked this guy and gave him hints but wouldn’t tell him that she liked him. I think this is silly! If you like someone why not tell them? I know that women are afraid of being up front because they don’t want to be rejected but isn’t it better to find out if he has feelings too? Oh wait, you would rather live in “fantasy camp” then just find of if he likes you.
So basically it’s,
If I like someone I should act like I don’t like them ..because if they think I like them…they won’t like me. But If I act like I don’t like them…then they will like me…but I won’t know it because they will be acting like they don’t like me! So If I am acting like I don’t like them and they are acting like they don’t like me…then how will we ever know that we like each other???
I would rather just say….HI, I like you….and see what happens next!
What about you?
Comment or send me an email Scotty@scottysaysradio.com
How to get over a break up!
July 26th 2007
Today on Scottysaysradio.com
People truly think they can control what others do when they are in relationship with someone.
If people want to cheat, you can’t stop them. If people want to leave, you can’t stop them.
What you can do is get over it.
I had someone break up with me…and this is how I handled it!
Scotty Says live
July 24th 2007
Good news!
I was just accepted to perform my live corporate/festival show at Michigan’s biggest festival and events convention showcase!
In Kalamazoo Michigan for MEFA convention this November.
This show is a mix of comedy, music and crowd participation.
Sure I talk to girls on the radio, and do a relationship based comedy/stage show, but some people have no idea what my corporate/festival show looks like…ITS BIG!!! So here is a sample
Watch the video!
Guy friends???
July 24th 2007
If you are a male reading this post, you might find this topic unsettling. In fact, there is a really good chance that you might feel slightly betrayed because I am about to leak out secret information on a very touchy subject. Men have been using this technique for years. It’s a backstage pass into the inner-workings of a woman.
If you are a female reading this post, you have been denying this fact forever. I hope after reading this you might finally be able to accept it. Hopefully the information I’m about to share will clear any doubts about this long-argued subject.
Let’s dive right in. There is no such thing as “GUY FRIENDS.” Come on, you knew this was going to be in this book! OK, let me repeat this as you shake your head in disbelief. THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS “GUY FRIENDS!”
Every guy who falls into the category of “just friends” wants more than friendship. Wow, that statement is very freeing. Say it with me so it sinks into your brain. All guys who are “just friends” want more than friendship. There is only one exception to the rule. If your guy friend has a crush on your brother, you are pretty safe! (But be cautious. I have seen television talk shows where a guy tells the girl that he is gay so she will trust him. He then somehow tricked her into sleeping with him, which was his goal all along. I live in a world where guys say they are gay to get girls? Help me!)
Now, I do not doubt that many women actually believe guys and girls can be just friends. But let me reassure you, friendship is NOT what the guy has in mind. A guy friend is just like a baseball player who is in the on-deck circle waiting for his turn at bat. Almost every guy friend at one time was once a love interest or the two tried to have a romantic relationship, but the girl said, “Let’s just be friends.” This pathetic male will take whatever he can.
Guy friends are just leeches with really big ears. (Do leeches have ears?) They hang on patiently waiting and listening. Ironically, this is the only period of time that the male will actually listen to what the woman is saying. He spends most of his time hanging around and is always there to comfort her. When a woman is fighting with her boyfriend, the “guy friend’s” shoulder is there for her to cry or snot on. The guy friend will say things like, “You deserve better. I would never treat you like that.” He is trying to brainwash the woman from the inside, like a bank robber who gets a job at the bank so he can case the joint first.
She is looking for advice, but the “guy friend” is not giving guidance that will benefit her. The guy friend only cares about himself and his tainted advice is self-serving. When she confides in him, the guy friend takes notes. When the woman gets flowers and says, “I like white roses” he remembers that information and files it away in his manipulating little brain. He says he is happy with the current situation, but he is lying! He wants to sleep with her! This guy pretends to be a friend, but is praying one day either have a lapse in judgment or too many drinks will cause her to end up in bed with him. In some cases, he’s hoping she’ll fall in love with him. Let me reassure you — his motives are self-indulgent.
Hey ladies, are you not convinced? OK fine, I will prove it. Think of the number of “guy friends” you have. Concentrate on that number. Now tell me this, how many of these friends have you tried to date or were romantic with at one time and it failed? Subtract them because they are not “just friends,” they are ex-love interests. This also includes anyone you have ever slept with. You are not “just friends” you are ex-lovers! Next, how many of these so-called friends have you kissed? Ouch, these guys have to go bye-bye too! Why? You don’t kiss your friends. I have never turned to my fishing buddy and said, “That’s a great bass you just caught! Quick, kiss me!” I bet by now your number of platonic guy friends is quickly dwindling. How many guys are left? (I am being optimistic in assuming that you have more than one so-called “guy friends” left.) OK, now let’s put these last guys to a test. Pick up your phone right now. Call each of the guys left on your list. When they answer, say in your sexiest voice, “I was thinking about us, and I think you should come over right now so we can have sex!” The remaining guys will set the new land speed record on the way over to your house. Think about it, when have you ever heard a male say “I would sleep with you, but I don’t want ruin our friendship! He wants you and he thinks if he is there for you every time you need someone, he wins by default.
The worst part of this whole thing is that many women already know that their guy friends want more then friendship, but will tolerate all of the advances because they enjoy getting attention. It’s great to always have someone there for her. She has someone to take to wedding receptions, gets free meals, good advice, and someone at her beckon call to listen to all of her problems. She is never alone as long as she has the good old reliable guy friend.
Listen up ladies! It’s dishonest and wrong to keep your so-called guy friend on a leash if you know that he wants more from you than friendship! You are leading the guy on and this is dishonest! Even if you verbally tell him that you don’t want more, your actions tell him something entirely different. If you hang out with this guy, your behavior is telling him that there still could be a chance for something more than friendship. Why do some women do this? It’s because many females do not like to be alone.
Scotty Says…“So many women say that they get along with guys better then they do with girls. Of course they do, guys are kissing your butt because they want you!”
Sometimes a fake “guy friend” will say and do all the right things. This lucky guy will get off the bench and get in the game. He has been in the stadium long enough for her to fall for him. All of a sudden, like magic, he’s the one. He’s her soul mate! It’s nothing she planed; it just happened. But, this IS something he planned. Through listening, pretending, and taking notes, he found a way to win her heart. Why does she love him? It’s because they have so much in common! But think about it ladies, if you had so much in common with him before you told him all the right answers, why was he only just a friend until now? It’s not a miracle. All he did was listen and over time she gave him the blueprints to her heart!
If you are in a relationship with someone, I think spending time with “guy friends” is completely wrong and unacceptable. There is no need to have “guy friends.” If you are a female, you’re probably thinking, “I need someone to just listen to me.” Instead of getting advice from and complaining about all the problems you have with your boyfriend to your “guy friend,” maybe you should be communicating your problems to your boyfriend! My mom doesn’t need any guy friends; why do you?
Guys, I apologize that I let our secret out, but I had to. I am trying to help you build a better relationship and we don’t need to trick someone into being with us.
NEW Female email monday
July 22nd 2007
It’s Monday on Scottysaysradio.com
Every monday, I read real emails from “real female listeners” sent to scotty@scottysaysradio.com
I pick a weekly email and after I read it, I will give advice! Plus you can send your comments to the emails and I might read them on the radio!
This week I got great emails, I don’t know which one to pick……
Here is today’s new Female Email
Want relationship advice? email Scotty@scottysaysradio.com
This weekend!
July 21st 2007
All weekend long on Scottysaysradio.com
“It’s the best of Scotty” (yeah good one!)
Get ready for an all new “female email Monday” video on ……well, Monday!