This week on Scottysaysradio.com
Broken heart over-compensation update!
Remember last week when when I told you a story about:
Me watching a girl make-out with two diffrent guys at the same time!She would kiss the one turn and then kiss the other. (And they were friends!!!)
I don’t even like to share a soda pop with someone!!!
Well this week she ended up walking up and talked to me. First off my hunch was right. I always say that there is something behind this type of behavior. Broken hearts and sad feelings causes people to over compensate and act over sexual. People will dismiss her “crazy actions” as “just having fun” or cutting lose. But there is ALWAYS something deeper behind it.
In our conversation it came out. She just got dumped after seven years and was told that SHE was the reason for her ex-boyfriend’s depression. She was sad and wants attention and will take bad attention as long as she feels like SOMEONE likes her. She doesn’t care who.
I told her that she needs to face the fact that she got dumped, and of course she got mad and me, called me “the devil” and I am a jerk now. Even though I was trying to help (This is called anger misplacement.) The sad thing is if I would of hit on her or made out with her then she would have felt better. ha-ha. I the one guy who doesn’t want to take advantage of the “emotionally damaged” woman but I am jerk and the devil.
I saw her the next night hump-dancing on every guy in the place so my talk didn’t help. (There’s a surprise) ha-ha
Women need to realize that ANY attention is not good attention.
And messing around with every strange boy in the bar isn’t going to make you feel better about being dumped!!!! You must face what happened.
Enjoy the show this week, and if you are having any relaitonship problems email scotty@scottysaysradio.com